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How An Overnight Trip to Grove City College Shaped Me

The beautiful Hall of Arts and Letters at night.
The beautiful Hall of Arts and Letters at night.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

By the time I figured out I was truly interested in Grove City College, I already felt overdue to have an overnight visit there. At that time though, it was already nearly April of my senior year. Who would take me in under such short notice? And how could the experience be anything but stressful?

To my delight, all my fears and doubts were squashed in a few short days.

My mom and I reached out to Grove City, and they connected me with some girls here who lived in a suite together. They offered to take me in for a night, and in no time, we had a date planned on the calendar for the visit. As if that was not enough, Grove City also organized multiple classes for me to sit in on during my trip. They even opened up doors for me to talk to specific professors in the major I was considering.

Instead of being scared, I was now excited. For the first time in my college search, I felt like things were actually falling into place.

I live about eight hours away from the college. On the morning of the day I would do my overnight, my mom and I drove all the way there in one trip. When I arrived on campus for the first time, the girls I connected with met me in the parking lot with smiles and hugs. They were so kind. Throughout the day, I had all my class and professor meetings. I felt like a superstar – every professor made sure to get my name right and remember it. Even the students I met during my class visits seemed to go out of their way to make me feel at home.

As the day went on, the girls took me to a worship service, campus Zumba, and watched a movie with me. That night, one of the girls I was staying with—Kimberly—gave me her bed to sleep in while she slept on the floor in a sleeping bag. I protested, but she insisted. The next morning, the girls ate breakfast with me at Mary Anderson Pew Cafeteria and we all had a good talk about life before I had to go back home.

I often think back to that first, 24-hour experience I had at Grove City. The trip there felt uncertain and scary. The trip back felt calm. My overnight was a definite turning point for me for so many reasons. I was able to experience the College’s beautiful campus, its top-notch classes, and some of the flourishing clubs and activities it offered students. Most of all though, I was blessed by the goodness of the people I met during that time.

If you can find the time during your college search, I encourage you to reach out to your top schools and try to organize an overnight with them. I was amazed by how much I learned about my school and my hopes for my college experience during my short overnight. It turned out to be one of the most important trips I could have taken at that point in my life.

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A Long-Awaited Celebration

24-14 Grove City College Football

Our football team recently won its first game in over three seasons. To say that my fellow students and I are excited is to say the least. What is truly remarkable about Saturday night’s game is not the long awaited celebration of a win, but rather the passion and excitement that continued before, throughout, and after the game.

The Experience

A student section had formed (naturally) and as the players took the field, before the game even began, the section began to jump up and down waving the Grove City College rally towels. Chanting proudly, “I believe that we will win!” The anticipation was palpable, but throughout an intense and close game the crowd was passionate and supportive. Two or three students took an unofficial leadership position and called out cheers and pumped up the section. Several times, when the game was paused for a timeout or end of quarter, College president Paul McNulty would lead the student section in cheering, too.

When the cheering died down in an intense moment, but the team needed that extra push, players or coaches on our sideline would turn around and wave up their arms, calling us to cheer, and the crowd would roar in response. The night before the game, an email was sent to the student body saying, “a loud crowd and great atmosphere is an extra player that the opponents cannot account for.” And this certainly proved to be true.

Two minutes before the end of the game Grove City was up, 24-14, and our student body began to go forward, waiting on the track outside of the field ready to celebrate with our team. With 10 seconds left, quarterback Randall LaBrie took a knee and the crowd went wild. As the clock hit 00:00, we ran onto the field in a celebration unlike any other that I have experienced. We sang the alma mater, and then fireworks erupted from the creek behind the field.  It was a perfect celebration of a long-awaited win.

Cultural Significance

This night was indicative of Grove City College culture in two ways:

First, the sportsmanship of our team. The next day I found an aerial view of the post-game cheering on the field and saw that our team put a pause on their celebration in order to promptly shake the hands of our opponents. They did not put this on hold, nor did they forget about this show of respect in the midst of great excitement. In this moment, each of our players showed the nature of their characters.

Second, the celebration of students was unified joy. There was no destruction of personal or school property, there were no hospital trips due to binge drinking or over-excitement of any kind. My friends and I went to a local restaurant for milkshakes to celebrate, as did several other groups of our peers who we saw there. We did not have to sacrifice safety or smart decisions in order to celebrate and have fun.

This win was one for the books, and an excellent example of the Grove City College culture and community overall.

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Brought to Tears My First Night at Grove City College: The Warriors Experience

If you’ve never visited Grove, you might not know about the every-Thursday-night, student-run worship tradition here. It’s called Warriors, and it brought me to tears the first time I experienced it.

I come from the greater New York City area. I grew up going to a very secular public school where most of my teachers wouldn’t even mention God. When they did, it usually wasn’t positive. It was often derogatory, in fact. People have asked me since if it was tough going through a school career like that, but honestly, it wasn’t. It was a bit annoying at times, but for the most part, it was so normal that I never really thought about it. I thought that was just ‘the way things were.’

All that changed when I visited Grove City for the first time and the girls I was staying with on my over-night brought me to Warriors.

Like I mentioned, every Thursday night, students flock to worship together at Warriors. It’s run by students, for students. Well over a hundred come every week. From 9 to 10 p.m., we turn off all the lights in the on-campus chapel, and just sing worship songs for an hour. It’s a beautiful and overwhelming experience.

When I went there during my first visit to Grove City, I didn’t know what to expect, but I certainly wasn’t expecting what it turned out to be. I went to a small church in New York.  I’d never seen so many people come together in worship before, especially not so many young people, and all by their own choice. Looking around at what could have been hundreds of eager faces in the dim-lit chapel made tears come to my eyes before we even started singing. And then, when the first song came on, I lost it. All of those individual faces turned into one, powerful voice. Goosebumps raced through me. To put it plainly, I was changed.

I came into that service feeling so many things at once. I was a highschooler in the midst of my college search, getting ready to make a huge decision, and I felt like I had a lot on my plate. Going to Warriors melted all of that away for me. Looking back, what it left in my anxiety’s place was a huge sense of gratitude. I felt so grateful that a place like this existed—and that it existed in a college I could call home if I wanted to.

It’s hard to choose the ‘one moment’ I knew I wanted to be at Grove City College, but if I had to, this experience would probably be it. It still gives me chills to think back on. Now as a junior, I still try go to Warriors every Thursday, no matter how full my schedule is. Even though I’m at a school where my professors pray before class and I see Bible study groups on the grass when I walk out of buildings, I can remember my public school in New York. I think back at its antagonism and how out-of-the-ordinary Christianity was to people there. I can’t help but be filled with gratitude at the contrast. I can’t help but cherish my first Warriors experience—my first time seeing what a prayerful, thriving church looks like.

So the point of all of that is to say this: If you get a chance to visit Grove City at some point, I hope you’ll make time to go to Warriors. Try to visit on a Thursday night. You won’t regret it. And if you’re used to big churches and faithful Christians being around you at all times, cherish that. Whether you go to school here or not, surround yourself with that. It is beyond important, and not something that ever ought to be taken for granted.

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Faculty Spotlight: Joshua Mayo

29268B94-B446-4DB3-A71D-BCE0F2944B86In my time at Grove City, I can honestly attest to the caliber of faculty that spans all of the departments.  From English to History to Chemistry to Art, I have experienced professors who not only love their classes but also those taking the classes.

That is not to say I’ve only experienced the kindness and friendship of professors in the classroom or, for that matter, the professors I have had. In the last year I have the pleasure of getting to know the personable Dr. Josh Mayo.

I never had Josh as a professor. In fact, the class he was hired on to teach was added after my freshman year. However, we met initially, I believe, at our church, Grace Anglican. We were aware of each other, but never had an honest conversation.

This fall at Homecoming my housing group, the Tri-Rhos, had a barbeque for the alumni, and I first met Josh. It’s odd how you meet professors outside of the classroom setting, get used to calling them by their first name, and then realize that their actually an employee at Grove City. To this day, despite that he recently received his Doctorate, Josh insists that I refer to him as just that, “Josh.”

During his time at Grove City College, Dr. Mayo majored in English and continues to pursue his love of literature to this day. After meeting his wife at the school, they moved to Oxford, Mississippi and then to Dallas, where he spent time at the University of Dallas.

“It was in that five year span that I began thinking about poetics, rhetoric, and the arts of language, the topics that drive my teaching interests today.”

He always knew he would return to Grove City though. There was something about the quality of people that emanated a joy he couldn’t 394B89A7-CA60-4A1E-A7E0-755E1BAED1CEkeep away from.

Dr. Mayo received his Ph.D. in studying the didactic principles of Shakespeare. Some scholars assert that Shakespeare only intended his plays to entertain, but Dr. Mayo doesn’t adhere to that school. He asserts that Shakespeare clearly wanted his works to be taken as lessons, as evidenced by the play-within-a-play format.

I see Josh and Bethany at Grace regularly, whether it be in the congregation or up leading worship. They haven’t just integrated themselves into campus life, but also in the community.

“Bethany and I love the community here in Grove City. This is where we want to raise a family. It’s a good place to put down roots.”

I have been truly blessed to make the acquaintance of Josh and Bethany. They are both truly wonderful, caring individuals that have showed me the benefit of caring for those around you and for the work that is at hand.

Dr. Mayo is only a single case study of all the truly wonderful individuals who get up in front of a classroom and pour out their passion for 50 minutes to an hour and 15 minutes.

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On-Campus Jobs: MAP Dishroom

Being a Grove City student is definitely a full-time job in and of itself. Classes, chapel, orchestra, sports, Greek life, bible study: you name it, and you’ll be booked full in no time. But there’s one thing that should be a part of your schedule so that you can afford to be a student with that busy Grove City schedule: an on-campus job. They’re often stressful, time-consuming, and mundane, but necessary to keep up with tuition costs. Fortunately, Grove City has a lot of on-campus job options, including the bookstore, the library, the admissions office, the mailroom, and my personal favorite, the dishroom in MAP cafeteria.

The first step in working at an on-campus job is finding one, which isn’t always as easy as it sounds. Many a student has been thrown off by the Student Employment Application on my.gcc.edu, thinking that they can fill it out and expect to hear back from an on-campus job come the start of the semester, but in the end, they get no response. At Grove City, the only way to get an on-campus job is to fill out a specific application sent out for that position and/or go to the supervisor and ask if they’re hiring. In MAP, it’s much easier than that. Anyone can walk right into the dishroom, take a look at the student schedule, and fill in their name for the shift that works best for them. You can take as many or as few shifts as you want, or even part of a shift: it’s extremely flexible. They also offer occasional Saturday shifts for catered events and visit days. After getting set up with payroll and a time card, you’re all set to go – your first on-campus job.

So what is it like to work in MAP once you’re there? Of course, dishwashing might sound tedious and less than desirable, but after working as freshmen, most students choose to stay and work in the dishroom throughout their college years instead of moving onto seemingly better choices such as the bookstore or the library. That’s because MAP’s students start off as coworkers just trying to get a job done and pay for college, but we become good friends who get paid to chat, listen to music, and have the occasional dance party while we work.

One of the greatest perks of working in MAP is the reason why the 7:30 a.m. breakfast staff doesn’t dread their shift as much as one might think. After the first rush of dishes, we get a paid half-hour break where we all enjoy breakfast and conversation as we slowly emerge from hibernation for the day. This gives students an opportunity to get to know those who they aren’t in direct contact with during their shift. One student describes it as a “very homogeneous and eclectic group of people who [initially] don’t know each other but become a family.”

In the dishroom, there are typically three to four students at the front collecting, rinsing, and loading dirty dishes into the machine and one student working in the back to unload and get the dishes ready to be taken back out to the cafeteria. Finally, the runner assists to unload and works to deliver the dishes out to the café. The runner is also responsible for ascertaining that all juice, flavored water, and milk machines are filled throughout the shift. I started working as a runner this semester, and although I was apprehensive at first, I’ve greatly enjoyed the position. I love the satisfaction of getting a job done independently and knowing that others can rely on my work.

While they tend to have many more open shifts in the beginning of the semester, MAP tends to accept sign-ups throughout the semester. In addition to their day-to-day scheduling flexibility, if your schedule develops an opening any time throughout the semester, you’re always welcome to search for a shift, or add another shift, in MAP. In the same way, if a shift ends up being too much for you, you can easily cross your name off, let the supervisor know, and drop it for that time. If this sounds like the perfect on-campus job for you the way it was for me, then don’t be afraid to come in and sign up when you arrive in the fall!

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So You Want to Join the Marching Band

If you happen to be registered for a class called MUSI 100: Band this fall, then your first week on campus is guaranteed to be wildly different than everyone else’s. It varies a little depending on if you are a percussionist, an auxiliary member, or an officer, but it’s always a memorable week for everyone. I want to share my annual marching band experience from the perspective of a bell player on the drumline.

Move-In Day

Your first move-in day: your first real day of your college experience and possibly one of the most terrifying days of your whole life. I’m not going to tell you that mine wasn’t bittersweet, but something happens when you arrive that makes you focus more on what’s ahead than what you feel like you’re leaving behind. For percussionists, it’s a day jam-packed with driving, getting your room key, mail key, and ID card, unpacking, frantically trying to get organized, and running off to Pew to see why the band director possibly needed you two days before the rest of the band arrives. (Side note: if you do move in on Wednesday as a percussionist or band officer, they don’t feed you lunch. Make sure to bring either food or money to grab fast food in town.)

A more important side note: The College is known for having Orientation Board, or OB, help freshmen move their things from their cars to their dorms, but it is also known that band students do not get this luxury. Fortunately for freshmen starting in 2017, the band has developed its very own Band Orientation Board, or BOB! You can expect members of BOB to help you as you arrive for your first day of band camp.

When you do arrive in Pew, it seems intimidating at first. The drumline is instructed to meet in the Little Theater, which is a small black box theater in the bottom corner of Pew Fine Arts Center. (Don’t worry, there will be signs in Pew and people who can tell you how to get there). Once you get there, you’ll be bombarded with new faces; there are generally around 20 people in the drumline, as well as our instructor/hero, Mr. RJ Heid. The drumline always consists of a mixture of new students and “veterans,” or students who have been in drumline before. The new students are generally a mixture of freshmen and upperclassmen music majors who have to take one semester of marching band. After you arrive, you are soon sent out into the hall while Mr. Heid hears everyone play in order to determine who plays snare, who plays bass, who plays tenors, who plays cymbals, and who plays mallets. If you play mallets here for multiple years like my section-mates and I have, eventually he stops testing you when you arrive and he just assigns you to mallets, no questions asked.

Percussion Camp

I affectionately refer to the nine-hour-long pre-band-camp intensive drumline rehearsals from Wednesday to Friday as Percussion Camp. Being the backbone of the band and providing necessary rhythm for each piece, the drumline has to have a solid basic understanding of each piece before the woodwinds and brass even arrive. Even though it’s draining, this is the time when members of the drumline first bond. We eat together in between rehearsals, get a pizza party after rehearsals, and on Thursday afternoon, we take time from rehearsal to actually introduce ourselves in an environment that has ceased to intimidate us.

Band Camp

After percussion camp “ends” (it never completely ends; the drumline still spends a lot of time perfecting pieces in the Little Theater while the band rehearses on stage) and the band arrives on Friday, we all get welcomed with a hamburger-and-hotdog picnic outside of Hicks Dining Hall. On different years, this has been followed by different things. During my first two years, we met on stage to start sightreading music on Friday night, but last fall, we went out to the marching field for the first time. I think it depends mostly on the weather.

Saturday is the first day of full band camp. That’s right, out in the sun, with your bells and harness on, learning the drill, learning the music, and getting that nice socktan that everyone loves. When I’m still struggling to learn the music, I can’t imagine how I will be able to play it and march at the same time, but once the time to multitask comes, it’s all just second nature, and I find it to be less stressful than the days in the Little Theater.

On the final night of band camp, we all go down to the actual football stadium (as opposed to the band practice field) and run through the show in its entirety. Parents and friends are invited to come see how our hard work has paid off. After this final rehearsal ends, the band holds a talent show in Pew’s Ketler Auditorium as a time to just relax, have fun, and see what your peers can do other than march, play, and be exhausted. It’s quite impressive.

Kennywood, Freshman Convocation, and On With Our Lives

Another time that we get a break from band camp is when we take a trip to Kennywood for a day. We still typically practice on the field before lunch, but we spend the afternoon and evening riding rides and marching in a short parade.

The one final push between band camp and the start of classes happens on Thursday morning (one week after Percussion Camp). First, we all gather in Pew in our uniforms, line up by height, and get our picture taken out on the steps. Afterwards, we march over to the Wolverina in the Physical Learning Center to play for the Freshman Convocation. When I was a freshman, and I had to play to welcome my fellow freshman, I already felt as though I’d been at school forever, and that I was welcoming them to my new home. It’s hard not to think, “I didn’t get a long, sappy welcome speech when I arrived. I just had to go play!” but I wouldn’t have it any other way.
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10 Insider Tips for Navigating the Dining Halls

Like every college campus, Grove City College has its own insider secrets, quirky trends, and unspoken rules.

When it comes to the dining halls, it’s a whole new ballgame. Dining halls in general can be a little overwhelming. There are so many food options, and it can be a task in and of itself just finding where the silverware is located. Here are a few helpful tips and some insider knowledge for when it comes to eating in the dining halls.

1. No trays. You’ll see trays available by the silverware but hardly any students use them. In fact, trays tend to be a dead giveaway that you’re new to campus.

2. Reserve your table with a wallet, phone, or ID. When you walk into either dining hall you’ll see wallets strewn across tables. This means that the table is taken. In other words, unless the wallet belongs to your friend you should keep walking. This is normal. At other schools, students may get their food first and then find a place to sit. Not at Grove City College. It’s an unspoken rule that you reserve your table by leaving a phone, wallet, jacket, or backpack and returning to your reserved spot once you have gotten your food. (Leave your belongings at your own risk, but we’ve never seen them get taken!)

3. Avoid going to meals on the hour. The dining halls are busiest at noon on Monday, Wednesday and Friday and during dinner hours on Sunday. It can be a madhouse and sometimes it is impossible to find an open place to sit. My suggestion is to arrive to your meal 10 minutes before the hour. For example, if you’re meeting a friend for lunch on Wednesday at noon, if possible one of you should go in at 11:50 a.m. and grab a table. This works because many students are just getting out of class at 11:50 a.m. and will then make their way to lunch. Show up 10 minutes early and beat the rush!

4. Silverware in the gluten free section. When the dining halls get busy, it’s not uncommon for silverware to be in short supply. If you find yourself unable to find a fork or knife, try looking in the gluten free section. There is typically a full stash that has been untouched!

5. Avoid stir fry during one-on-one meals. Stir fry is awesome. You can pick your add-ins, the meat, and the kind of noodles. However, because this option is fresh and made-to-order, it typically takes a while. If there is a line for stir fry this option can take even longer. If you made plans to get a meal with one other friend, save stir fry for another time. If you’re eating with a group, that’s a different story. Avoid leaving your lone friend hanging at the table by themselves for 15 minutes while you get your stir fry fix.

6. Get creative. Don’t feel limited by what you see. If you can’t find something that interests your taste buds that day then get creative! Here are some ideas!

  • Get grilled chicken from the grill line and put it on a salad.
  • Use a bagel from the toaster section to make a sandwich on the panini press.
  • Make buffalo chicken dip. Get chicken from the grill line, cream cheese from the toaster section and the rest of the ingredients at the salad bar. Combine all ingredients in a bowl and pop it in the microwave. Voila!
  • Pour sweetened coffee over ice cubes and half-and-half for a creamy iced coffee.
  • Make a grilled pizza. Put some pepperoni and cheese between two pieces of french bread (from the bread section) and grill it on the panini press. Dip it in marinara sauce from the pasta section.
  • Steam your own veggies by grabbing some veggies from the salad bar and putting them in a bowl with a splash of water. Cover the bowl and microwave.

7. Get the chili. The dining halls are known for having pretty good chili. If you see it on the menu then get it!

8. Cookies. If you’re in the mood for a soft chewy cookie in a variety of flavors, head to MAP dining hall for lunch. They tend to have a great array of cookies baked to perfection.

9. MAP vs. Hicks: Students debate which dining hall is better. It is really a matter of preference. Both dining halls are catered by Bon Appetit. However, there are differences. Check out the great things about both!

  • MAP
    • Amazing cookies.
    • Normally there are wraps during lunch hours, and they always have subs during lunch
    • Homier atmosphere, not as loud as Hicks.
    • Sometimes they do Sushi.
    • Fun kinds of pizza (ex. Hawaiian, bacon ranch, buffalo chicken, etc.)
    • Shorter lines
  • Hicks
    • Better ice cream flavors
    • Grilled chicken and burger options at every meal.
    • Stir fry
    • Smoothies and milkshakes.
    • Breakfast for dinner on Friday nights.
    • Bigger salad bar.

10. Leave your backpack outside the dining hall. Most students will leave their backpacks outside the dining hall in a cubby, on a hook, or sitting in the entryway. It makes tables less crowded when you don’t have to figure out where to place your backpack!

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Faculty Spotlight: Dr. Mobley

Dr. Jennifer Mobley is a Communication Studies professor and advisor here at Grove City College. She’s taught several classes, including Research Methods, Public Relations, Writing for the Media, Professional Communication. I have taken Research Methods and Public Relations with her, and I can say that I have experienced her unique, hands-on, student-focused teaching style firsthand. She always jokes about the coincidence that she ended up teaching at Grove City, her alma mater, because she had always been extremely opposed teaching for her whole life. I was lucky enough to hear her story of how she ended up here, and how her unconventional teaching style plays such a big role.

How is Grove City different now than it was when you were a student?
Mobley said that a lot of things here at Grove City are still similar her second time on campus, and in some ways it feels as though she’s never left. The campus itself has literally changed, however, as some iconic buildings at Grove City such as HAL and the Student Union hadn’t been built yet when she was a student here. Culture-wise, Mobley said, the college has somewhat changed. For example, the term “Grover” used to have a positive connotation, being associated with hard-working students, but now it is somewhat more negative and synonymous with “perfectionist” or “over-achiever.” Positively, though, there is now an openness to creativity that wasn’t here when she was a student. She said that there is more diversity of opinions, it is less homogeneous, and it is more complex and nuanced than the Grove City stereotypes like “Groverachievers” and “Ring by Spring” make it out to be.

Dr. Mobley has many fond memories of her time here as a student, one of which being the ability to see how close and tight-knit the English and Communication professors were. She feels lucky to be able to return and be a part of the English-Communication family here, especially since it is a part of a greater intellectually and spiritually transforming community that so closely embodied her own values.

You were at first opposed to the idea of teaching. What did you want to do instead?
Dr. Mobley started out at Grove City as a secondary education major; however, the more she experienced it, the more she disliked teaching. As a matter of fact, it got to the point that Mobley swore to herself that she would never become a teacher. By her junior year, she had changed majors from Education to Communication, and most of her schedule was filled with comm classes such as journalism, public relations, public speaking, and persuasion theory. Within this new discipline, the opportunities were wide open for her. After this, Dr. Mobley gained a lot of communication-related experience during her time as a Grove City student.

Mobley worked as a writer and a journalist, and eventually she became the editor of The Collegian, the campus newspaper. She spent the summer after her junior year in Poland and then in Israel with the Anti-Defamation league, which is a summer-long fellowship helping newspaper editors understand Middle Eastern peace issues. In Poland, she was exposed to Jewish history, and then in Israel, she got to witness it as it happened. Mobley wrote a series of articles as a part of this program, and so far she liked journalism; although when she began her senior year, her writing interest shifted from journalism to creative writing.

Creative writing allowed Mobley to do things her own way and take her time writing without the deadlines that come with newspaper writing. At this point, however, she didn’t have a solid career path, but she was encouraged to enroll in graduate school as a placeholder until she knew what to do. Mobley, on the other hand, believed that when it came to grad school, one should know why they are attending or not attend at all. With no other post-graduation plans, however, Mobley found herself attending graduate school while applying for advertising jobs, writing jobs, or whatever she had to do. The first job that she landed was in event planning, followed by career services, public relations, grant writing, and program design and development. Mobley was invigorated by the ways that these jobs allowed her to bring people together, and she didn’t see a way that teaching would allow her to accomplish that.

How did you end up teaching?
Dr. Mobley wasn’t specifically opposed to teaching at Grove City. She was opposed to teaching at all. The reason for this was that she believed that she wouldn’t be able to fit the traditional mold of what a teacher should be. She isn’t the type of person to assign worksheets and textbook readings, talk about right and wrong answers, and grade quizzes.

Dr. Mobley fought the idea of teaching every step of the way, because she needed to be able to make a real difference for people and for the community. If she were to teach, she wanted to be able to take an experimental, applied, unconventional approach to learning. As a Grove City student, Mobley had gotten the chance to work with the college on a massive bicentennial celebration campaign in both her PR class and an independent study. This was the first time that she got to apply what she had learned in her communication classes and work outside of the classroom to make a difference. She knew that this was the style of communication work she wanted to do. Her passion could not be contained within the four walls of a classroom.

Unfortunately, during her graduate education, Mobley was required to teach a course in order to graduate. Still fighting it, she said that she wanted to do the work, not teach it. The only way that they were able to convince her to teach was by telling her that she could do both. She could apply real-world communication experience into the classroom, and she could work alongside her students. So with her luck, Mobley was assigned to teach a public speaking class. This was a required course for all students at that university, it was two hours long, and it was at 8 o’clock in the morning. The students didn’t want to be there, and Dr. Mobley definitely didn’t want to be there.

Cliché as it turns out, however, the rest is history. Dr. Mobley walked in on the first day of class and instantly fell in love with it. Convinced that the first day of class was a fluke and it really would be terrible, she approached the next class skeptically. Again, though, she loved it. It turned out that she didn’t have to teach out of a textbook, she didn’t need to make everyone do the same thing, and she didn’t have to be the traditional teacher. In the public speaking class, she worked alongside students to help them develop usable speeches, she brought in speakers from the community, and she was able to be herself: and this is why the students loved her so much.

What brought you back to Grove City?
While in grad school, Dr. Mobley was invited back to Grove City to speak to the Women of Faith group, and while she was here, she stopped into a classroom for a moment. In the room was a janitor who had been her classmate during her undergrad in an education technology class. He mentioned that he had seen a sign for her speaking to the Women of Faith, and he told her that she had been so kind to him in their class and she had helped him a lot. Mobley said that this reminded her of how personable everyone is here, and she said that the community truly does stick with you. By this time, she had decided that she would indeed like to teach, but she was more interested in possibly moving to the west coast, possibly teaching at a secular institution. She had been urged to teach somewhere that offered tenure and allowed her to do research. Those around her saw her return to this private liberal arts college as a step back from where she was headed.

Mobley, however, had an intuitive feeling that she could bring out the creativity in Grove City’s students. She knew that she wouldn’t fit the mold here, but she would be able to do her own thing and fulfill a need for unconventional students without linear career paths. She could show them that even if they don’t follow the straightfoward way of life, there are so many opportunities for everyone. She could show them because she had lived through it: after college, she hadn’t known what she was going to do, but she had worked in so many different areas of communication that she would bring out the creativity in students and increase their confidence in an unconventional career path. She ended up manifesting this ideology into students by replicating professional experiences within the classroom, being involved with nonprofits and companies, meeting with students one-on-one and in small groups, and tailoring her communication specifically for different students.

If you could give one piece of advice to incoming freshmen, what would it be?
Dr. Mobley said that she lives by a quote from Rilke’s Letters to a Young Poet that says “Live your questions.” There is always a pressure to come up with answers today, but she believes that this puts unnecessary pressure on oneself. She doesn’t want her students to miss the greater part of being present and building relationships here and now, because there is no one day when you wake up and say “I have arrived.” Life is an ongoing process, and even as an adult, she still wonders daily where she will end up in six months or in a year. The future is a mystery, and she says we ought not to be afraid of it, but excited about what could happen. Mobley said that becoming is a process, and it is bigger than a job title or what you do from nine to five, but rather it is the person you are in the midst of those titles. She said that for her, it is about helping students become who are created to be in those small moments, because those small things are the things themselves. For her, it’s not about the destination. It’s about the journey.

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Greek Life at a Christian School?

The age old question. Greek life at a Christian school? How can this be true? How can it be acceptable? Let me tell you my experience and you can decide for yourself. Now, I am not saying joining a Greek group on campus is for everyone, but please do not be scared to do so. I have been so blessed by my sorority and I have been impacted for the better.

When I first arrived at Grove City College, Greek life was on my radar, but was not something I was considering. My dad, an alumnus of Grove City, had been in a group on campus, but I had decided it simply wasn’t for me. However, shortly after starting school, my roommate and I decided to look further into joining a group. First off, let me say during this process I received nothing but encouragement from girls from various sororities to find a place where I felt comfortable and did not feel peer pressured to join a specific group by any means.

I eventually joined the Tri-Zeta sorority and I am so happy that I did. In four short years these girls have come to mean so much to me. They have been a constant source of encouragement and joy. College is a time of many life transitions. So much happens while you are away at school and you do not have your family members to support and encourage you face-to-face like you used to in high school. Thankfully, I have had my sorority sisters during my highs and lows.

With such a large and diverse group, I have learned valuable lessons from each member. I truly believe everyone has something to offer if you just pay attention, and everyone has the ability to teach you something. Watching the girls ahead of me pursue great careers, marriages, and friendships has taught me what it will look like for me to pursue these things as I begin to encounter them in my life. I have been to proud to watch them become young women and learn from their struggles and successes. I have also watched alumnae, who are many years beyond me and wonderful women of God, live lives I hope to model. The Tri-Zeta alumnae are always happy to lend a helping hand and give advice about careers and life itself!

ZETAS1Now that I am a senior, I have been with the other seniors in my group for four years. Though I am very different from all of them, I can say I consider them my best friends. Beyond just the senior class, the classes below me have become close and dear to me so quickly. Much like Jesus and his 12 disciples, these girl know me inside and out. They know where I struggle, and they know my strengths. They are always willing to listen and lend a helping hand. They are my prayer warriors and my greatest joy. Senior year has brought many changes to my life. I have been searching for a job, I am recently engaged, and I have lived in my first apartment. There is no one else I would rather have by my side to celebrate life’s joys, and work through life’s hardships.

No matter where you find your group of friends at Grove City College, I sincerely hope you find a group that reflects the closeness of Jesus and his 12 disciples. It is very hard to be close with everyone, so be sure to know who your true friends are. The ones who will be there for you day and night, no matter what. The friends who never shy away from offering a helping hand and love you in all circumstances. Trust me, if you look hard enough you can find them. For me, I found this in the Tri-Zeta sorority.

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10 Ways to Be the Best Roommate

After three years of rooming experience, here are my tips on how to be the best roommate. (Please note that I know for a fact I am not the best roommate, but my past two roommates have been incredible, and I learned a lot from them!)

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  1. Be forward. If you have a problem, deal with it right away. If she keeps knocking your towel down or never washes her dishes or shuts the door too loudly… it’s better to deal with it right away, no matter how awkward you feel, in order to preserve the relationship.
  2. Be quiet. If you wake up early or go to bed late, be respectful of your roommate. For example, this year I pretty much always wake up an hour before my roommate and go to bed an hour or two later than she does. In order to minimize noise, I prepare my bag and my clothes beforehand so that I can be quiet when the lights are out. Also, avoid talking loudly to your mom on the phone without asking your roommate first. Just try to be quiet because sometimes the dorm room is the only quiet place your roommate will have.
  3. Give them space. You don’t have to be best friends, so give them space! If they have plans on Friday night, you don’t always have to tag along. And if they’re feeling grumpy one day, you don’t have to make them talk to you. Sometimes people just need alone time.
  4. Invite them often. With that being said, if you can, try your best to invite your roommate before you go out. Ask if she has lunch plans or if she wants to see the movie with you. Sometimes your roommate will be too shy to ask if she can tag along so it’s your job to do the inviting when it is appropriate.
  5. Ask first. Before doing anything, ask permission. This includes but is not limited to: blasting music, inviting friends over, deciding to remodel the room, vacuuming, letting someone spend the night, etc.
  6. Plan a weekly roommate date. Even though you probably spend a ton of time with your roommate already, be sure to spend quality time with them! This could be anything from a movie night to working out together to grabbing lunch once a week. My current roommate and I grab meals together and plan hangouts with our other friends over the weekend. My roommate from last year and I plan weekly ex-roommate dates where we go on walks, eat brunch, get bubble tea, and more.
  7. Remember their birthday; even if they forget yours! Throw them a surprise birthday party. Buy them flowers. Cover their bed in balloons and streamers. As their roommate, it’s your job to make them feel special and a last second post on Facebook is not enough.
  8. Start a quote wall. Do not underestimate how amazing a quote wall can be. Mine is simple. I just took four blank pieces of paper and taped them to my closet door. Whenever something funny or weird is said, we yell “QUOTE WALL” and run over to write it down with a sharpie. It’s a great bonding experience.
  9. Introduce your friends. Again, you and your roommate do not have to be besties, and you don’t have to be in the same friend group. With that said, try to make an effort to introduce your friends to your roommate so that they don’t feel awkward around each other.
  10. Be flexible. In the end, flexibility is key. If your roommate is an introvert, give her some alone time. If she’s an extrovert, plan parties and outings with her! Just have fun and don’t take yourself too seriously.

Who knows? Your roommate may end up being one of your best friends.